Everyone strives to find ways to improve their self esteem. Whether you're doing this subconsciously or physically it doesn't really matter. But this creates a challenge especially since you're not particular on what you would like to improve on. Chances are you're improving low self esteem without even thinking about it.
Not many are familiar with the ways of improving their self esteem and here are ten helpful guides you can easily follow.
- Stock up on your self esteem by creating a check list of things you want to improve on. Start by how you communicate with others. Accomplish one change at a time and put check on it once you're done and move on to what's next on the list.
- Feel good about yourself starting now and show that extra confidence to everyone wherever and whenever you find yourself in. Remember it's the journey that matters most than the destination.
- Create a goal for yourself by knowing what you want. Find out how the people around you or the ones you meet can help you get closer to your goals. This will help you determine how you can approach each person. Do this always and the results are noticeable.
- Get driven and motivate yourself. Let everyone know how any of them can help you in your goals. People who are very driven end up being successful in their careers.
- Develop the mindset that every person you meet is important. It's surprising how effective this is.
- Two things: give a good handshake and look a person in the eye when speaking to them. Make sure your handshake is firm and not too hard. Always try to look for a good character trait you find attractive in every person you meet.
- Learn to listen. Give notice to what others are saying. Try to remember a person's name and if you forget ask their name after exchanging a couple of sentences.
- Show a person that you are responding to them by nodding or calling out their name. Make use of your listening abilities. Remember, people can read through your body language.
- Remind yourself that everything is not all about you by paying attention to others around you. Learn to accept news whether it is good or bad. Empathize with other people's situation and genuinely show that you care.
- Do not interrupt a person while speaking whether you're doing this mentally or verbally. In short, give a person your full attention when they are speaking because its' rude if you don't.
Now that you know how to improve yourself esteem, try to apply this in your everyday interactions with others. The more of these tips you apply everyday the brighter your aura gets and you charisma gets a good boost. But if you want have a more charismatic personality it's going to take more than these ten tips to achieve that.
Having a very positive aura definitely helps in improving low self esteem. Not only does this benefit you but it also benefits everyone and everything around you. Your positivity affects your interactions with your family, your outlook on your career and it can make people of the opposite sex find you more attractive and likeable.